Si Pengali Kubur

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy.. thanks.

ha, satu teka teki telah menarik perhatian saya semasa mendengan satu siaran radio didalam kereta. penyampai station radio tersebut , dengan kelakarnya telah mengutarakan teka teki tersebut yang diterimanya dari pendengar setia station radio itu. haha, kalau kita mendengar sepintas lalu teka teki ini, ianya seolah olah satu perkara ganjil tetapi disebalik itu tersirat maksud kelakar yang turut menguji minda kita. teka teki itu berbunyi seperti berikut, " kenapa kah seoarang pengali kubur, mengali kubur tidak mengunakan spender?" bila soalan ini diutarakan, saya terus ligat berfikir, dan ironinya sudah tentu soalan ini agak ganjil, dan mememerlukan satu jawapan yang turut menguji minda. Seterusnya penyampai itu bertanya lagi, “awak ada tengok ke dia tak pakai spender?” kepada yang mengemukakan teka teki ini..

so jika kengkawan yang menerima soalan teka teki ini, apa kah jawapan yang ingin kengkawan beri?

Saya nak menarik perhatian kengkawan kepada soalan penyampai diatas, “ awak ada tengok ke dia tak pakai spender?” Umumnya, ungkapan seperti “ awak ada tengok ke?” sama seperti “awak ada dengar ke?” lumrahnya, kita sering mendengar ungkapan seperti ini apabila kita dengar gossip gossip, cakap cakap tentang orang lain, sama ada betul ke tidak, dan pada kita yang menerima berita itu, seharusnya kena pertimbangkan supaya kita tidak terlibat didalam gossip gossip yang, akhirnya nanti akan memberi satu implikasi negatif , memberi aib kepada orang lain, menjatuhkan maruah orang, yang belum tentu berita itu betul atau tidak. Macam cerita pengali kubur, “awak ada tengok ke dia tak pakai spender?” “apa pulak hal nya jika dia tak pakai spender? “ so dia nak pakai ke , tak nak pakai ke, itu hal dia le. “Apa kaitannya dengan kerja yang dia buat? “ dan “apa pulak kesannya pada kita jika dia gali kubur tak pakai spender?” rugi ke kita?


Persoalan seperti ni timbul jika kita melihat dari satu sudut didalam kotak pemikiran kita. Jon “think outside the box” . sudah tentu jika kita fikir diluar kotak pemikiran kita, mesti jawapan yang hendak dicari adalah berlainan dari apa yang mungkin kita jangkakan..

*** so jika kengkawan punyai jawapan, sila kemukakan pada ruangan komen posting ini, sama ada betul ke tidak, adalah umum untuk kita tentukan.. key word untuk isu ini ialah "think outside the box!"

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"Anonymous"

Two Choices.

Salaam, Enjoy reading and pass it on.


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Two Choices

What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line,
there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the
same choice?
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning
disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the
school and
its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does
is
done with perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot
understand things as other children do.
Where is the natural order of things in my son?'
The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was
mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to
realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other
people treat that child.
Then he told the following story:
Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing
baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that
most
of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a
father
I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give
him a
much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by
others
in spite of his handicaps.
I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting
much) if
Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're
losing
by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on
our
team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'
Shay struggled over to the team's bench and with a broad smile, put on a
team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my
heart.
The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.
In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but
was
still behind by three.
In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the
right
field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just
to
be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to
him
from the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.
Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was
on
base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to
win the
game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all
but
impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly,
much
less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that
the
other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life,
moved
in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make
contact.
The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.
The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly
towards
Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball
right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over.
The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the
ball to the first baseman.
Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's
head, out
of reach of all team mates.
Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to
first!
Run to first!'
Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first
base.
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'
Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and
struggling to make it to the base.
By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the
ball
. The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the
hero
for his team.
He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag , but he
understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the
ball
high and far over the third-baseman's head.
Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him
circled
the bases toward home.
All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'
Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him
by
turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!
Shay, run to third!'
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators,
were on
their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'
Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who
hit
the grand slam and won the game for his team.
'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,
'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity
into this world'.
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never
forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and
seeing
his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
AND NOW A LITTLE FOOT NOTE TO THIS STORY:
We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second
thought,
but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people
hesitate.
The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but
public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools
and
workplaces.
If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that
you're
probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the
'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message Well, the person who
sent
you this believes that we all can make a difference.
We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize
the
'natural order of things.'
So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us
with a
choice:
Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up
those
opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the process?
A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least
fortunate amongst them.
You now have two choices:
1. Delete or
2. Forward
May your day be a Shay Day.


"ANONYMOUS"

10 foods for longlife

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy.


HANDBOOK 2010


Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a
beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that
is manufactured in plants..
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Make time to pray.
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2009 .
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead
invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with His/her
mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems
are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra
class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree...

Society:
25. Call your family often .
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time w/ people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
3
0. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends
will.
Stay in touch.

Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change..
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come..
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least :
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about, I just did.



"Anonymous"

Khasiat Teh..

Assalamualaikum! Salam Sejahtera!



Kopi atau Teh?


Teh O ais.. Teh Tarik.. Teh O suam.. Teh O limau, Teh Herba  Teh.. teh Oh Teh.. Kenapa le ramai suka minum teh?

Pegi mana pun selalu orang tanya nak yang mana satu.  mari kita lihat pasal teh dulu..

Sejak dahulu teh menjadi minuman yang rutin bagi kita jarang sekali di dapur tiada uncang teh atau serbuk teh. Teh bukan sahaja minuman paling popular di rumah atau di kedai-kedai makan ia juga sering digunakan dalam perubatan sejak dari zaman dahulu lagi.

Teh mula ditemui di benua asia, iaitu sekitar India, Utara Burma, China dan Tibet kemudia teh diperkenalkan ke negara-negara lain melebihi 50 buah negara.

China diangkat sebagai pengguna teh terawal dunia. Menurut sejarah teh mula digunakan di china sejak kurun ke 10 sebelum Masihi dan dari sejak awal penemuan teh digunakan sebagai bahan dalam ubat ubatan. Dalam segi sains pula teh didapati mempunyai lebih kurang 700 jenis bahan kimia dan kebanyakannya mempunyai hubung kait dalam sumber kesihatan tubuh badan manusia. Khasiat teh juga adalah meningkatkan imunisasi.

Teh boleh dibahagikan kepada beberapa jenis iaitu teh hijau, teh hitam, teh putih dan teh oolong.

Kaya Antioksida

Kekuatan khasiat teh adalah pada sumber antioksidanya yang tinggi dikenali sebagai polyphenols atau flavonoids. Bahan ini terdapat pada teh hijau dan teh putih. Pada teh hitam pula dikenali sebagai theaflavin. Ternyata kandungan antioksida dalam teh hijau dan teh putih lebih tinggi berbanding teh hitam.

Polyphenol berkhaisiat untuk mengesan sel-sel penyebab kanser dan punca arteri tersumbat.

Sumber Kafein

Kafein dlam kuantiti yang berpatutan mebawa kebaikan terhadap tubuh kerana ia dapat merangsang metabolisme serta meningkatkan fungsi otak dan rangsangan pada persekitaran. Tidak hairan lah ada sesetengah orang mengamalkan minum minuman berkafein untuk menjaga badan.

Secawan kopi mengandungi 125-185 mg kafien manakala 1 cawan teh hitam mengandungi 45-60 mg kafein. Teh oolong,35-45mg dan teh hijau, 15-20mg. Jumlah kafein pada teh ini adalah jumlah di tahap normal. Kesan kafien didalam teh akan meransang secara perlahan berbanding kopi untuk memberi kesegaran pada tubuh. Kini tahu lah kenapa sejak zaman dahulu atuk nenek kita minum kopi dan teh ketika sarapan.

Kelebihan Teh

1001 khasiat sebenarnya terdapat didalam teh. Jika tidak kenapa teh dijadikan sumber ubat ubatan sejak zaman dahulu. Selain berkhasiat sebagai penawar, teh juga berkhasiat mencegah penyakit.



"Anonymous"

PERINGATAN:

Blog ini sekadar untuk berkongsi apa yang baik difikirkan oleh SB, tetapi mungkin apa yang baik bagi SB tidak pulak begitu pada pengunjung, jadi jadikan petua ini sekadar untuk mempastikan keberkesanan apa yang dikongsikan. Dan jika itu berlaku, Blog "TO LOVE IS TO SHARE" tidak bertanggungjawab diatas sebarang kesulitan yang timbul akibat mengikuti petua yang dikongsi ini. Wasalaam.

Game Over???

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy..

hahaha, secara umumnya, cerita ini hanya merupakan satu cerita lawak. namun disebalik itu, ada unsur pengajaran yang boleh kita ambil dari cerita ini.
persoalannya, siapa lebih bijak? tukang gunting ke atau kanak kanak tu?
Jika kita berfikir secara selari (lateral thingking), mungkin kita akan mengakui bahawa seseorang yang lebih dewasa akan mempunyai kuasa berfikir yang lebih dari seorang kanak kanak. Namun kenyataannya, jika seorang kanak kanak itu semulajadi dianugerahkan dengan IQ yang lebih berbanding seoarang dewasa, cara berfikir kanak kanak itu sudah tentu melebihi apa yang ada pada seorang dewasa. Sama le perumpamaan yang mengatakan, "kecil jangan disangka anak, besar jangan disangka bapa" . disokong pula dengan kenyataan, "kecil kecil cili padi" So, cerita ini memberi peringatan kepada kita agar tidak memandang rendah pada sesorang. Mungkin orang itu nampak bodoh didepan kita, tetapi ada kelebihan yang tidak nampak dan akhirnya kita membodohkan diri kita sendiri. Oleh itu, kita jangan le turus menghukum seseorang itu, hanya kerana melihat dari luarannya saja tanpa mengetahui kedudukan yang sebenar.. lebih baik kita berhati hati dari terus menjatuhkan hukuman tanpa usul periksa.

well guys, read on this short story, and enjoy something good out of it. Thanks..


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A young boy enters a barber shop and the barber whispers to his customer, "This kid is not so bright. Watch while I prove it to you."The barber puts a dollar bill in one hand and two quarters in the other, then calls the boy over and asks, "Which do you want, son?"The boy takes the quarters and leaves the dollar."What did I tell you?" said the barber. "That kid never learns!"Later, when the customer leaves, he sees the same young boy coming out of the ice cream store and says, "Hey, son! May I ask you a question? Why did you take the quarters instead of the dollar bill?" The boy licked his cone and replied, "Because the day I take the dollar, the game's over!"


"Anonymous"

Don't mess with a 94 Year old

Salaam guys, Relax, this is just a joke. hahaha, i had my good laugh and i hope you too..thanks.


Don't mess with a 94 Year old


Defence Attorney: Will you please state your age?

Little Old Lady: I am 94 years old.

Defense Attorney: Will you tell us, in your own words, what happened the
night of April 1st?

Little Old Lady: There I was, sitting there in my swing on my front porch on
a warm spring evening, when a young man comes creeping up on the porch and
sat down beside me.

Defense Attorney: Did you know him?

Little Old Lady: No, but he sure was friendly.

Defense Attorney: What happened after he sat down?

Little Old Lady: He started to rub my thigh.

Defense Attorney: Did you stop him?

Little Old Lady: No, I didn't stop him.

Defense Attorney: Why not?

Little Old Lady: It felt good. Nobody had done that since my Albert died
some 30 years ago.

Defense Attorney: What happened next?

Little Old Lady: He began to rub my breasts.

Defense Attorney: Did you stop him then?

Little Old Lady: No, I did not stop him.

Defense Attorney: Why not?

Little Old Lady: His rubbing made me feel all alive and excited. I haven't
felt that good in years!

Defense Attorney: What happened next?

Little Old Lady: Well, by then, I was feeling so 'spicy' that I just laid
down and told him 'Take me, young man. Take me now!'

Defense Attorney: Did he take you?

Little Old Lady: Hell, no! He just yelled, ' April Fool!' And that's when I
shot him, the little Bastard



"Anonymous"

May we learn to follow it.

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy. Thanks..



Assalam U Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah,

The Triple Filter Test. Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: "Keep away from ill-thinking/suspicions because ill-thinking is the greatest falsehood." [Sahih Bukhari.During the Abbasid period


one of the scholars in Baghdad was greeted by an acquaintance who said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?"
Scholar: "Hold on a minute, before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test."

The Man: "Triple Filter Test?" Scholar: "That's right, before you talk to me about my friend it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say. That's why I call it the triple filter test.

The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?" The Man: "No, actually I just heard about it and ..." Scholar: "All right, so you don't really know if it's true or not.

Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?" The Man: "No, on the contrary..." Scholar: "So, you want to tell me something bad about him, but you're not certain it's true.

You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: The filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?" The Man: "No, not really." Scholar: "Well, if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"

Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) asks us: "O you who believe! Avoid much suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh (meat) of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who accepts repentance, the Most Merciful." [Quran 49:12] Let's pass our intended speech through the triple filter test before we madly utter our every thought. And lets subject others to the triple filter test too before we hear any number of damaging things from them. "Make the most of five things before five others: life before death, health before sickness, free time before becoming busy, youth before old age, and wealth before poverty." (Saheeh al-Jaami')


"Anonymous"

Hand Book 2010

Assalamualaikum! Salam Sejahtera!


HANDBOOK 2010

Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a
beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that
is manufactured in plants..
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Make time to pray.
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2009 .
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.
Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead
invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with His/her
mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems
are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra
class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree...

Society:
25. Call your family often .
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family & friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change..
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come..
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least :
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about, I just did.

My Birthday/AS ON OUR WAY WE GO

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy.

Di-dalam kita mengharungi perjalanan kehidupan kita , kita akan pasti berdepan dengan pelbagai peristiwa suka dan duka, pahit dan manis.. semua itu adalah asam garam di dalam kehidupan, dan apabila kita berjaya melalui semua itu dengan sebaik mungkin, maka kita telah memulakan satu langkah untuk lebih berjaya di masa yang akan datang, yang pasti akan lebih mencabar.. terima kasih.




-- AS ON OUR WAY WE GO

There isn't much that I can do, but I can share my bread with you, and sometimes a sorrow too


-- as on our way we go.

There isn't much that I can do, but I can sit an hour with you, and I can share a joke with you, and sometimes share reverses, too


-- as on our way we go.

There isn't much that I can do, but I can share my flowers with you, and I can share my books with you and sometimes share your burdens, too


-- as on our way we go.

There isn't much that I can do, but I can share my songs with you, and I can share my mirth with you, and sometimes come and laugh with you


-- as on our way we go.

There isn't much that I can do, but I can share my hopes with you, and I can share my fears with you, and sometimes shed some tears with you


-- as on our way we go.

There isn't much that I can do, but I can share my friends with you, and I can share my life with you, and I can share my Allah with you and often times a prayer or two


-- as on our way we go.


"Anonymous"

Difficult And Beautiful

Assalamualaikum! Salam Sejahtera!



Difficult And Beautiful
Life can be very beautiful and life can be very difficult. Learn to
appreciate the beauty so much that the difficulties cannot bring you down.
The way to deal with life's difficulties is not to avoid them. The way to
successfully deal with those difficulties is to overwhelm them.
Be more persistent than your most persistent problems. Use your creativity,
your flexibility, your ingenuity and your passion to make your way forward
no matter what.
Treasure the beauty in even the smallest, most seemingly insignificant
things. Connect with the abundance that is woven through every fiber of
life.
See each moment as an opportunity to make a small difference. Those small
steps you make forward will soon add up to create big results.
Life can at times be difficult, but so what? The immense beauty and
possibilities for joy are worth far more than all the troubles combined.

-- Anonymous --

THE RIVER..

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy.. thanks.


THE RIVER..


Walking through the forest, a seasoned hiker came upon a broad, slowly moving river. He stopped to gaze over the waters, appreciating the beauty, when suddenly he heard a faint cry coming from upstream.


Looking in the direction of the noise, he saw an obviously drowning man floundering in the river and drifting slowly toward him. The hiker was stunned momentarily, but he sprang into action when he saw the man disappear beneath the waters. Throwing off all of his cumbersome gear, he dove into the river and swam like a madman toward the spot where the man went under. Upon reaching the spot he plunged below the surface and frantically hauled up the helpless man. He then laboriously towed the victim to shore. Heaving the lifeless body up on the riverbank, the hiker attempted to revive the man, who eventually spit up water and began to breathe.


Relieved, the hiker paused to catch his breath. But no sooner had he done so than he heard another voice out on the water. Another drowning person! Once again he swam out and pulled the person to shore, a little more slowly this time. As the hiker-turned-lifeguard revived the second victim, he heard yet another cry for help.


All day long the hiker worked, rescuing one person after another as they came drifting down the river. There seemed to be no end of drowning victims, and the hiker didn't think he could keep it up.


Just when he was about to collapse from exhaustion, he spotted another man walking rapidly beside the river, headed upstream. "Hey mister!" he cried out. "Please help me! These poor people are drowning!" Amazingly, the man kept walking upstream. The astonished hiker called out again. Without even acknowledging the cry, the man kept going. Indignant and angry, the hiker leapt to his feet, ran toward the uncompassionate man, stood directly in his path, and in a loud voice demanded, "Sir! How can you possibly walk past all these drowning people? Have you no conscience? Must I force you to help me save these people?"


The stranger stopped, looked at him for the first time and said with a calm, focused voice, "Sir, please get out of my way. I am headed upstream to stop the guy who is pushing all these people in."


Each of us has a role to play in rescuing those who are drowning in sin. Some of us pull people from the water and resuscitate them with counseling, food and shelter, a rehabilitation program, a support group, or financial aid. Affirm those doing these important ibadah. Others of us find our place of ibadah upstream, opposing the one pushing people into the river. We do this by introducing our lord those people to , knowing our loard sets a person free from sin and releases them from Satan's power over them. By itself, pulling people from the water isn't enough. We need to help people deal with the problem of sin at its source.



"Anonymous"

THE BROTHEL..

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy. Just sharing, though this is just a joke but get some meaning out of it in life..thanks.


The Brothel..


The madam opened the brothel door and saw a rather dignified, well-dressed,
good-looking man in his late forties or early fifties.

'May I help you sir?' she asked.

'I want to see Valerie,' the man replied. 'Sir, Valerie is one of our most
expensive ladies. Perhaps you would prefer someone else', said the madam.


'No, I must see Valerie,' he replied.

Just then, Valerie appeared and announced to the man she charged $5000 a
visit. Without hesitation, the man pulled out five thousand dollars and gave
it to Valerie, and they went upstairs. After an hour, the man calmly left.


The next night, the man appeared again, once more demanding to see Valerie.
Valerie explained that no one had ever come back two nights in a row as she
was too expensive. But there were no discounts. The price was still $5000.

Again, the man pulled out the money, gave it to Valerie, and they went
upstairs. After an hour, he left.


The following night the man was there yet again. Everyone was astounded that
he had come for a third consecutive night, but he paid Valerie and they went
upstairs.

After their session, Valerie questioned the man, 'No one has ever been with
me three nights in a row. Where are you from?' she asked.

The man replied, ' Ontario '.

'Really?', she said. 'I have family in Ontario .' 'I know.' the man said.
'Your sister died, and I am her attorney. She asked me to give you your
$15,000 inheritance.'



The moral of the story is that three things in life are certain.
1. Death
2. Taxes
3. Being screwed by a lawyer



“Anonymous”

AND THAT'S WHERE THE FIGHT STARTS..

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy..hehehe



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One year, a husband decided to buy his mother-in-law a cemetery plot as a New Year gift. The next year, he didn't buy her a gift. When she asked him
why, he replied, "Well, you still haven't used the gift I bought you last
year!"

And that's how the fight started...

----------------------------------------------------------
I asked my wife, 'Where do you want to go for our anniversary?' It warmed my
heart to see her face melt in sweet appreciation. 'Somewhere I haven't been
in a long time!' she said.

So I suggested, 'How about the kitchen?'

And that's when the fight started...

----------------------------------------------------------
My wife and I are watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in
bed. I turned to her and said, 'Do you want to have $sx?'

'No,' she answered. I then said, Is that your final answer?' She didn't
even look at me this time, simply saying 'Yes.'

So I said,'Then I'd like to phone a friend.'

And that's when the fight started...
----------------------------------------------------------
I took my wife to a restaurant. The waiter, for some reason, took my order
first. 'I'll have the strip steak, medium rare, please.' He said, Aren't you
worried about the mad cow?' 'Nah, she can order for herself.'

And that's when the fight started...
----------------------------------------------------------
My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping the channels. She
asked, 'What's on TV?' I said, 'Dust.'

And then the fight started...
----------------------------------------------------------
My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary. She
said, 'I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 200 in about 3 seconds.' I
bought her a scale.

And then the fight started...
----------------------------------------------------------
My wife and I were sitting at a table at her high school reunion, and she
kept staring at a drunken man swigging his drink as he sat alone at a nearby
table. I asked her, 'Do you know him?' 'Yes,' she sighed, 'He's my old
boyfriend... I understand he took to drinking right after we split up those
many years ago, and I hear he hasn't been sober since.' 'My God!' I said,
'Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?'

And then the fight started...
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I rear-ended a car this morning. So, there we were alongside the road and
slowly the other driver got out of his car. You know how sometimes you just
get soooo stressed and little things just seem funny? Yeah, well I couldn't
believe it...

he was a DWARF!!! He stormed over to my car, looked up at me, and shouted,
'I AM NOT HAPPY!' So, I looked down at him and said, 'Well, then which one
are you?'

And then the fight started...
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When our lawn mower broke and wouldn't run, my wife kept hinting to me that
I should get it fixed. But, somehow I always had something else to take care
of first, the truck, the car, playing golf. Always something more important
to me. Finally she thought of a clever way to make her point. When I arrived
home one day, I found her seated in the tall grass, busily snipping away
with a tiny pair of sewing scissors.

I watched silently for a short time and then went into the house. I was gone
only a minute, and when I came out again I handed her a toothbrush. I said,
When you finish cutting the grass, you might as well sweep the driveway.'

And then the fight started...



... The doctors say I will walk again, but I will always have a limp.



"Anonymous"

You Shall

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy the meaning out of this beautiful words..just sharing with you guys..thanks.


You Shall


you shall not worry, for worry is the most unproductive of all human
activities.

You shall not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to
pass.

You shall not carry grudges, for they are the heaviest of all life's
burdens.

You shall face each problem as it comes. You can only handle one at a
time
anyway.

You shall not take problems to bed with you, for they make very poor
bedfellows.

You shall not borrow other people's problems. They can better care for
them
than you.

You shall not try to relive yesterday for good or ill, it is forever
gone.
Concentrate on what is happening in your life and be happy now!

You shall be a good listener, for only when you listen do you hear
ideas
different from your own.

You shall not become "bogged down" by frustration, for 90% of it is
rooted
in self-pity and will only interfere with positive action.

You shall count your blessings, never overlooking the small ones, for
a lot
of small blessings add up to a big one.



"Anonymous"

The Alphabet - For High Achievers!

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy.. thanks.


The Alphabet ............for High Achievers!



A-aim for what you want by focusing clearly on priorities.

B-believe in yourself and your goals, and then begin to strive for them.

C-count your blessings, create opportunities, and commit to faith-driven
action.

D-dream big dreams, design a plan, and dedicate yourself to excellence.

E-energize yourself with positive thoughts, and expect daily miracles and
victories.

F-follow through with faith-driven action, and forgive mistakes of the past.

G-give time, energy and extra effort, and give thanks for all that you have
and will receive.

H-hold on to your dreams with desire and faith through the long winters of
life.

I-imagine yourself as successful, and release thoughts of fear that would
limit you.

J-journey out of your comfort zone to acquire new knowledge and greater
rewards.

K-keep moving forward little by little, gaining new wisdom and courage each
day. I mplement strategies that work, and toss those that don't work.

L-love yourself enough to take good care of you so that you'll be able to
take care of those you love.

M-make room for the most important things first, and move into action when
the time is right.

N-negotiate with others so that everyone wins.

O-open the eyes of your spirit, and see the good in others and in life.

P-practice the skills needed to propel you to the level of excellence.

Q-question things you may need to remove, and increase energy by living in a
stress-free environment.

R-recognize favorable circumstances, ride each wave with courage, and rest
to renew your energy.

S-stand firm on your commitment to excellence. Seek out the people and
information that can help you succeed.

T-thank God for all blessings, take control of your time, and tackle each
problem with integrity.

U-uncover your talents, unleash your creative spirit, and unite with God's
purpose for your life.

V-visualize your objectives as already achieved, and give thanks for their
attainment.

W-wake up to each new day of adventure, and wash out negative thoughts with
positive prayers.

X-cxell by examining your results daily, and making adjustments in your
actions as needed.

Y-yield to your purpose and values, living each day with the faith and
knowledge that you were created as a unique and valuable person.

Z-zero in on your targets, and move toward them with desire, dedication,
commitment, and faith. Wishing you many great achievements!



"Anonymous"

EASY - DIFFICULT

Salaam guys, read on and enjoy.. thanks.


EASY - DIFFICULT



Easy is to judge the mistakes of others - Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes..



Easy is to talk without thinking - Difficult is to refrain the tongue..


Easy is to hurt someone who loves us. - Difficult is to heal the wound..



Easy is to forgive others - Difficult is to ask for forgiveness..



Easy is to set rules. - Difficult is to follow them..



Easy is to dream every night. - Difficult is to fight for a dream..



Easy is to show victory. - Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity..



Easy is to admire a full moon. - Difficult to see the other side..



Easy is to stumble with a stone. - Difficult is to get up..



Easy is to enjoy life every day. - Difficult to give its real value..



Easy is to promise something to someone. - Difficult is to fulfil that promise..



Easy is to say we love. - Difficult is to show it every day..



Easy is to criticize others. - Difficult is to improve oneself..



Easy is to make mistakes. - Difficult is to learn from them..



Easy is to weep for a lost love. - Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it..


Easy is to think about improving. - Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action..



Easy is to think bad of others - Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt..



Easy is to receive - Difficult is to give..



Easy to read this - Difficult to follow..



Easy is keep the friendship with words - Difficult is to keep it with meanings..



"Anonymous"

The Truth About Success

Assalamualaikum! Salam Sejahtera!



----- Original Message -----

From: Abang Kenyalang

Sent: Sunday, October 25, 2009 9:40 AM




Hi All, I don't know who the author of this article is or whether the author may have had a disability. Still, I felt this article worth sharing as a reminder to us all about the things in life that are truly important.







Read on:



The Truth About Success..


Everyone wants a blue ribbon. Blue. First place. The best. Even kindergartners want that blue ribbon. In sports, I was never a blue-ribbon person. In a race I was always last. In baseball I was as likely to get hit on the head as to drop the ball. In basketball I was fine as long as there weren't nine other players on the court with me. Where I got my horrible sports ability, I don't know, but I got it. And I got it early. During the spring of my kindergarten year, our class had a field trip to a park in a town about 20 miles away. Making that drive now is no big deal, but when you're six and you've lived in a town of 300 all your life, going to a town of a couple thousand is a very big deal. Nonetheless, looking back now, I don't remember much of that day. I'm sure we ate our little sack lunches, played on the swings, slid down the slide, typical six- year-old stuff. Then it was time for the races. However, these were no ordinary races. Some parent had come up with the idea to have the picnic kind of races, like pass the potato under your neck and hold an egg on a spoon while you run to the other side. I don't remember too much about these, but there was one race that will forever be lodged in my memory, the three-legged race. The parents decided not to use potato sacks for this particular race. Instead, they tied our feet together. One lucky little boy got me for a partner. Now what you have to know about this little boy is that he was the second most athletic boy in our class. I'm sure he knew he was in trouble the second they laced his foot to mine. As for me, I was mortified. This guy was a winner. He almost always won, and I knew that, with me, he didn't have a chance. Apparently he didn't realize that as deeply as I did at the time. He laced his arm with mine, the gun sounded, and we were off to the other side. Couples were falling and stumbling all around us, but we stayed on our feet and made it to the other side. Unbelievably when we turned around and headed back for home, we were in the lead! Only one other couple even had a chance, and they were a good several yards behind us. Then only feet from the finish line, disaster struck. I tripped and fell. We were close enough that my partner could have easily dragged me across the finish line and won. He could have, but he didn't. Instead, he stopped, reached down, and helped me up, just as the other couple crossed the finish line. I still remember that moment, and I still have that little red ribbon. When we graduated 13 years later, I stood on that stage and gave the Valedictory address to that same group of students, none of whom even remembered that moment anymore. So, I told them about that little boy who had made a split-second decision that helping a friend up was more important than winning a blue ribbon. In my speech I told them that I wouldn't tell which of the guys sitting there on that stage was the little boy although he was up there with me. I wouldn't tell because in truth at one time or another all of them had been that little boy, helping me up when I fell, taking time out from their pursuit of their own goals to help a fellow person in need. I told them why I've kept that ribbon. You see to me, that ribbon is a reminder that you don't have to be a winner in the eyes of the world to be a winner to those closest to you. The world may judge you a failure or a success, but those closest to you will know the truth. That's important to remember as we travel through this life. You may not have a red ribbon to prove it, but I sincerely hope you have at least a few friends who remember you for taking time out from your pursuit of that blue ribbon to help them. I'm thinking those will be the ones that really count. I know it's the one that counted the most to me.

THANK YOU GOD

THANK YOU GOD








Dear God:



I want to thank You for what you have already done.



I am not going to wait until I see results or receive rewards, I am thanking you right now.



I am not going to wait until I feel better or things look better, I am thanking you right now.



I am not going to wait until people say they are sorry or until they stop talking about me,



I am thanking you right now.



I am not going to wait until the pain in my body disappears, I am thanking you right now.



I am not going to wait until my financial situation improves, I am going to thank you right now.



I am not going to wait until the children are asleep and the house is quiet,



I am going to thank you right now.



I am not going to wait until I get promoted at work or until I get the job,



I am going to thank you right now.



I am not going to wait until I understand every experience in my life that has caused me pain or grief,



I am going to thank you right now.



I am not going to wait until the journey gets easier or the challenges are removed.



I am thanking you right now.



I am thanking you because I am alive.



I am thanking you because I made it through the day's difficulties.



I am thanking you because I have walked around the obstacles.



I am thanking you because I have the ability and the opportunity to do more and do better.



I'm thanking you because God, you haven't given up on me.



-- Author Unknown